The laws of nature are the way they should be in our house... Man fetches firewood in the cold! Other erm... man... erm... makes tea...

So we have delved into the world of complete couplehood. - Joint bank account, HIV test and living together... Not that this all is new, its been a norm for a while now. We also celebrated on 1 year anniversary on the 2nd of May and sadly, in gay years, that is roughly 7, but we are more in love now, than I feel we have ever been before.

This year has surely been a trying one so far, but we are half way through it... YAY!

So now, where do you draw the line of normality? For virgo's like me, over thinking about a otherwise trivial matter to others, is a seemingly normal thing. Thank god we share responsibilities around the house but I still wonder if all is fair in our quaint farm cottage. I can't help but feel that I owe something.

I have never felt so connected to another person before and I am even thinking what life commitment would entail. Do we become the stereotype gay couple from down Wisteria Lane? I think we both have far too strong personalities for this type of thing, even though it is a very thin line that I wouldn't want to trip on crossing. Sure, he is the more practical of us, and I am maybe more of the ... erm... motherly, but should we get the smoking jackets and slippers out right away? I want it, all of it and I want it now.

As most things, I suppose, time will tell. I want to be able to call him my husband, I hope he wants the same...